So, I refunded all their money, appologised, and closed down my ebay shop. I can now stop worrying about it.
Feels good. :)
Since I've been diagnosed as having COPD, I can clam disability allowance. go me. At least I'll get something out of the fact I cant do a damn thing. Not talking a lot here, maybe 50 quid a week, but it's more than I get without it.